Now The Truth Can Be Told

 The truth is I’ve been traveling for almost a month. Actually within that time I was home for nearly a week but it didn’t feel at all like being home. When I took this on I optimistically thought I could accomplish a lot more than was realistic. The truth is that, like in the Sinatra song "My Way," I bit off more than I could chew. 

It’s been a mixture of wonderful and challenging events including a fantastic vacation, some very rich learning, becoming one of only two Certified Logosynthesis Practitioners in the United States (Jonathan is the other), having some airline travel go beautifully as well as being caught in one of the biggest airport messes I can remember – and arriving only an hour late after missing two different flights. 
 
Actually that part I bit off for myself and I could have managed it if a few other unexpected things hadn’t gotten tossed into the mixture.
 
The week before our first trip a pinched nerve in my back slowed me down considerably and on the day I was most uncomfortable we woke up and discovered a major flood in the basement of our 55-year-old home. There was no obvious source of the water that was inundating us as we tried to mop it up and get things out of the way. 
 
After what seemed like an interminable time but was really just a few minutes, Jonathan turned off the water valves leading to the house and the deluge stopped. We were due to leave in less than three days.
 
I feel like I should stop the story here and leave you hanging for the next episode, but I won’t. Amazingly, from that point on almost everything has worked out well. The rescue company we called was incredibly professional and once they got started we didn’t even see what was happening for at least 10 days. They coordinated with the insurance company and other necessary repair services. 
 
The work is still going on and because of US holiday on Monday we couldn’t even find out what was happening until yesterday. We still have an enormous job of sorting through our belongings and putting things away in the newly reconstructed cabinets. That will come later.
 
Meantime we attended Logosynthesis training in Nova Scotia and enjoyed an incredible vacation on a repositioning cruise of the Liberty of the Seas that started in Barcelona, Spain and ended in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Here’s a picture of me learning to ride a Segway in Malaga.
 
We drove home from the airport in a blizzard after spending the day traveling from Fort Lauderdale to Denver. The snow melted, the weather is beautiful, the president was reelected, the hurricane came and went, the suitcases were unpacked, and then my back went out again. My chiropractor promises I should be fine in a couple of days – and the saga continues.
 
All I can say is that I never could have imagined this fantastic life I lead. I am truly blessed and am looking forward to keeping my commitment to spread the word about 99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before…Saying "I Do" and about Logosynthesis and to enjoying the holidays and spending time with my family.
 
I hope you enjoy a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving day here in the US and take time to count your blessings wherever you are.

 

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I Met The Pied Piper

Complete this sentence, "I know that my summer is over when ____________"
 
Here’s how I did it:
I know that my summer is over when the grandchildren are back home and back in school and because my son came and picked what he says are about 400 pounds of apples from three apple trees in our yard. So far I have only managed to give away three big bags full of unsorted but often wormy, great tasting apples.
 
So my task for the day could be sorting and managing apples. I’ve been letting myself be diverted from my computer with tasks like that for quite some time. After seven weeks of delightful chaos and a revolving door of visitors we settled down for an entire two weeks to catch our breaths before a driving vacation to Sedona, Arizona.
 
I am so grateful that after being married for 52 years we can still hike the trails that lead to magical sights and adventures. We don’t move very fast but we do get where we’re going — or sometimes decide we’ve gone far enough and stop in some wonderful place. On one hike we had to pick our way across the same stream many times. I’m proud to say that I only fell in once and got just wet enough to cool off comfortably. 
 
On another hike I think I met the pied piper of Sedona. I kept seeing small rocks carefully placed in trees as we made our way up the trail. When we reached a saddle between two large rock formations I saw a man presenting every woman he met with a heart-shaped rock. He gave me one too and told me that I was in a special place that balanced male and female energy between the formations known as Kachina Woman and Warrior. 
 
I watched as a few young Japanese people scrambled up the Warrior rock formation. Then I was surprised to see the same man appear to stroll up this steep formation and settle cross-legged at the top.
 
He made gestures of prayer to the four directions, pulled a Native American style flute from his backpack. Hauntingly lovely music drifted over the scene and mesmerized the scattered hikers. I lost all sense of time.
When he finished and we started down the trail, I carefully placed my heart-shaped rock in just the right tree. 
 
And now summer is over and it’s time for me to refocus my own energy on my project to help lower the divorce rate by introducing as many people as I can to my book, "99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before…Saying "I Do." Will you help?
 
I posted this announcement on Facebook a few weeks ago:
 
Are you searching for the secrets of a satisfying and fulfilling married life? Would you love to know how to survive marital challenges? Does your daughter, sister, niece best friend or daughter-in-law to be need this information? Order you print or ebook and read reviews and excerpts of "99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before…Saying "I Do" at www.laurieweiss.com/ido. 
 
I would appreciate it very much if you would copy and paste just this paragraph and send it on to your friends — either by e-mail or on your Facebook or other sharing page.
 
 If you haven’t read the "99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before…Saying “I Do” reviews and excerpts check out the pages at http://wwww.laurieweiss.com/ido or at http://amzn.to/QAxyjY (That’s the Amazon Kindle link where the book is on sale for a ridiculously low price. Get a copy for yourself or as a gift right now.)
 
 

 

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Try 2012 Without Resolutions

Happy New Year!

Do you do any kind of formal or informal year-end review? My mail box has been filled with instructions about how to make 2012 your (my) best year yet. Aren’t you relieved that I have no similar instructions for you?

I have always hated to set specific goals. Instead I’ve decided on my priorities and check to see whether the choices I make are aligned with them. Keeping a journal makes this process easier for me, and besides, it’s fun to discover what I have to say almost every day.

I rarely read my journal, but on New Year’s Day I was counting my considerable blessings and looked to see what my day had been like a year ago. This year’s entry was so much happier than last years that I spend some time reflecting on how I made such a dramatic shift. My answer was involvement – involvement in writing “99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before Saying I Do” and in practicing and teaching Logosynthesis.

So naturally I intend to stay involved. The book is done so as soon as it is released my focus will shift to letting the world know it exists. The short, pre-publication reviews are wonderful and I’ll share them soon. Meanwhile, I have already started writing lots of brief articles about relationship issues to publicize the book. I think you’ll enjoy the two most recent that I’ve posted. Check them out and leave a comment.

She Cheated On Him: Should She Stay or Go?
Lisa cheated on her long term boyfriend when she was really drunk a…
http://t.co/CbmWMsdi

Alcohol Abuse: What Will Help? Kirsten wants advice because she Is tired of the “stupid crap” she’s been puttin… http://t.co/vbZpVBdb

Only you know what you should do this year. No matter what it is, I suggest you include figuring out what makes you feel best about yourself and about other people and doing as much of it as you can.


By the way, if you live in the Denver area come to the free introductory program on Logosynthesis Jonathan and I are offering at People House in Denver on January 25th at 6:30 pm. Let me know at laurieweiss@empowermentsystems.com if you would like to attend. And please share this information with anyone who might be interested.

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