Occasionally, I have had the opportunity to work with the old and new life partners of the same individual. Each time it happened, I wished that the ex-partner and the current partner could have the opportunity to compare notes. I imagined that it would have relieved the guilt of the ex-partner and provided remarkable feedback about recurrent patterns to both people.
Of course, because of professional confidentiality, I could not indulge in my fantasies.
Now, in a new book, Mirrored Lives: The True Story of Two Women, One Man, and the Betrayals that Brought Them Together, my friend Jan Lander, and her friend Lib Lander, have done just that. They met, compared notes, and shared their stories with each other. I was fascinated. You may be also. Happy reading.
[tags]Personal Growth,Self Help, Self-Improvement,Relationships[/tags]
